5 Things Do When Life Gets Tough

5 Things Do When Life Gets Tough





Life has its ups and downs.   We all experience joy and sorrow, health and sickness or pain, stress and calm, confusion and focus.  I have experienced all of these things at one time or another over the years and I have learned coping skills for the times when things are down.  

1.  Turn to God for help.
       God is number one for me.  I pray and ask for His guidance every day.  During hard times, I truly rely on Him.  I love to read His word and then journal my thoughts and feelings.  Forming a habit of creating time for God each day will make it natural to turn to Him when times are hard and I know He hears and answers prayers.  

2.  Choose to focus on the good and be grateful.
       Sometimes when we are in a really low time, it is so difficult to see anything good.  We have to work consciously on finding the good, even if the things we find are small or generic.  Shifting focus to gratitude raises our frequency and enables us to be lifted emotionally.  An attitude of gratitude brings joy to everyone even and especially in difficult circumstances.

3.  Ask for and accept help when needed.
      It is ok to ask for help.  It is ok to accept help.  Moms, especially, are givers by nature and desire to be on the giving end of service usually.  That is good, but when is it your turn?  Let others help you!  If they do not know your situation, reach out to ask for the help you truly need.  When others offer help, let them, accept it.  You will both be blessed!

4.  Be willing to work through your emotions.
      Moms often stuff emotions to be able to function for our kids.  This coping mechanism is only good short term so we don't break down in an undesirable location or time.  It is essential to take the time when you are emotionally safe to let the feelings out and to work through them.  Journalling is a fantastic tool for this  and I have found essential oils are extremely beneficial to help release emotions so you can let things go.

5.  Know that you are the only person you can change.
      When sorrows are due to other's behavior, know that you cannot change them, but you can change yourself.  You can work on your attitude, your acceptance of the other person, or you can work on knowing when to remove yourself from a situation that is harmful.  In many cases, when health is causing your sorrows, know that there are things you can do to improve your outcomes with natural solutions like diet, exercise, and natural remedies.  Effort may be required, but isn't your health worth it?  


Check out this podcast I did a few months ago on loving yourself.   I talk more about how I take time with God each day.

Find prayer journals with or without Bible verses here.  These can help you turn to God and focus on the good!

For inspiring stories from women who have been through difficult times and have still found joy, read The Truth About Finding Joy In the Darkness.




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7 Steps to Stop Clogged Milk Ducts: How do you keep them flowing freely?

 7 Steps to Stop Clogged Milk Ducts:  How do you keep them flowing freely?


As a mother of 7 children, I have experienced the delight of breastfeeding each and every one of them for at least a year.   I loved my time breastfeeding.  The connection I made with my babies while they looked up into my eyes was really amazing.  I highly recommend breastfeeding for multiple reasons, but that is for another blog!  

Some parts of breastfeeding were not so wonderful and 
I had ups and downs with milk flow.   I was prone to clogged milk ducts and I got mastitis several times.  The speed which mastitis can set in is a little frightening.  Through my many experiences, I figured out that catching those clogs early was key.  I was able to  manage it all myself naturally, and I did! 

If you would like to try a natural approach to maintaining free flowing breast milk, read on.     I have come up with a list of the best ways I used to support myself to keep things flowing!

1. Drink!  Drink!  Drink!  Water is essential!  Nursing moms need to be drinking more than usual to keep up with the demands of their infant.   If you are dehydrated, milk production can go down, flow can be reduced in some areas, you can experience fogginess and fatigue (more than usual), and you are more likely to get sick.   You must get enough water! 1/2 your bodyweight in ounces is a normal amount of water, so you should be drinking more than that.  


2.  Drink pineapple juice!   I thought this was weird when I first heard it!   For some reason, the acid in pineapple helps keeps the milk flowing freely!  I always kept a large jug of pineapple juice on hand while breastfeeding.  That way, immediately upon detecting a clogged duct, I could start drinking it.  I would drink a whole jug the first day.  


3.  Essential Oils are wonderful for the comfort and relief they bring!  My favorite recipe is: 2 drops  clove, 10 drops  tangerine, 10 drops  lavender, 1½ tsp  V-6 Oil or Olive Oil.  Mix and massage on the breasts and under the armpits twice daily.  (I usually rub it in immediately after the baby is done nursing – it will not cause harm to the baby as long as they are pure unadulterated oils, but applying after feeding gives a little extra time for it to soak in.  In case of skin irritation – use more V-6 or olive oil)  I love how this keeps the milk flowing clog free!  To step up milk production, try  fennel, or  fenugreek tea.


4. Heat!  You can apply a hot compress before, during and after breastfeeding.  It is soothing, and seems to help keep the milk flowing freely.


5.  Massage –  Wash your hands first.  Massage in a clockwise motion and towards the nipple.  Also massage any lumps, even though this is painful, it helps!  This can be done with the heat and/or oils before, during and after breastfeeding.  It is great to do this in the shower, too.  Make sure to be ready for spilt milk.


6.  Nurse/ pump!   This is almost a given, but drain all the milk you can, any way you can!  This is especially important if your baby isn’t nursing well for some reason (teething, illness).  


7.  Immune System Weed & Feed!  This is not for your lawn – this is for your gut!   Weed in the morning:   Inner Defense is powerful for the immune system, and provides your body with a great defense!  (Be sure to take it with food as it is very strong.)  Feed in the evening:    Life 9 Probiotic is the best I have ever tried – I use it every day – it re-colonizes the flora in your intestines, which strengthens your immune system, and gives your body what it needs to thrive!  I have found great success with these.

You can find the Free Flowing Milk Ducts Bundle with lavender, clove, tangerine, V-6, Inner Defense, and Life 9 here!

This is for educational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or prescribe.  Please see your medical professional if you have a fever.  This can be serious!



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Seasonal Tips for Stress-Free Holidays

Seasonal Tips for Stress-Free Holidays
If you have ever sat thinking about upcoming events or seasons and have felt the stress rising even before the stress comes, this is for you!!




Don't give up before the season starts!  
Try these tips to lessen stress and feel more peace!  

 



Prepare Ahead of Time

Write out your budget and stick to it.  This will alleviate stress in the moment when you are trying to make decisions. 
Prioritize all holiday activities.  What events most important to you?  Make sure you schedule these first.  It is ok not to go to ALL the things.  Having your priorities straight and even reducing the number of activities will do a lot to reduce your stress.
Schedule time to relax.  In a season with little down time, MAKE the time!  Your body and mind will be able to take the break they need to let go of stress.
Schedule immediate family time to laugh and play.  One of the best remedies for stress is laughing with family. In the end, your family is the most important priority.  
Make lists of people for gifts & cards, menus, supplies, etc.  Get all your ducks in a row.  Make all your lists so you remember everything you need in each scenario.  Less stress, more peace!

Keep Healthy Habits

Make healthy food choices.  Even with all the sugary treats and feasting indulgences, you can make good choices and limit consumption of unhealthy options.  When bringing food to an event, make a healthy option.   Unhealthy food choices stress our bodies out making us more likely to get sick, so making the best choices will remove that stressor. 
Keep exercising.  This may not be the time to start a new regimen, but continue your exercise routine and keep moving.  Exercise is known to alleviate stress and help us feel good. 
Keep spiritual practices.  Reading scripture, prayer, and mediation are all known to lower stress levels.   Keep going with these habits to stay centered and at peace.
Keep using essential oils.  There are so many essential oils that help reduce stress levels and help us relax. Some of my favorites are  Lavender Stress Away, and  Peace & Calming.  Others help with the feelings of the season like  Gratitude Christmas SpiritFrankincense, Myrrh, Joy Cinnamon Bark, and  Orange

Embrace Emotions & Family

Know that it is ok to feel a range of feelings during the holidays.  With missing loved ones, past trauma, current situations that are not ideal, or a myriad of other reasons, we may feel other emotions besides gratitude, peace, love, and joy.  Accept these emotions, acknowledge them, as this will lower the stress we feel at feeling the "wrong" emotions at this time.  However, do your best not to dwell in the lower frequency emotions.  
Focus on Gratitude and Love.  You can find joy and happiness in the little things.  Keeping an attitude that focuses on the good relieves stress and raises our frequency, which helps us feel good. 
Gracefully navigate family situations with a focus on the good.  Family is wonderful!  But not every minute is wonderful.  Remembering to focus on long term relationships, forgiveness and love goes a long way to reducing stress.  
Keep family connections strong, whether in person or via phone or video chats.  Loving family relationships help alleviate stress in many ways.  




If you are looking to make better nutritional choices, but need some guidance, check out the free Veggie Up Challenge in  Holistic Super Moms FaceBook Group in the guide section.  



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The best way to set sustainable goals

The best way to set sustainable goals
As a Certified Nutritarian Coach, one of the first things I do with my clients is to set reasonable health goals. Sometimes I find that my clients are so excited to move forward that they want to set a lot of big goals right at first, however, this is not usually successful.
 
As a society, we joke about the failure of “New Year’s Resolutions.” So many of us set big goals at the beginning of the year and then give up after two weeks because we set either too many goals at once or goals that were unrealistic. This becomes overwhelming and unsustainable without major support. Setting small attainable goals with weekly accountability is the key to success.

 After setting your overarching long term goal: 
1. Get your mindset in a good place. (Believing you can do something is the first step.) 
2. Set a goal that is small enough to complete in one week. (You can do anything for a short time.) 
3. Set a goal that is personally attainable. (Be honest with yourself. If 10 minutes of exercise is all you can do per day the first week, then great!) 
4. Get your family on board. (Although not absolutely necessary, family support really helps with success.) 
5. Have a coach or accountability partner for a weekly check in. (Having someone to talk to who keeps you on track helps motivate you when it gets tough.) 
6. Keep track on paper, in a journal, or on a chart. (This only takes a few minutes, but makes a huge difference in success.) 
7. Set a small reward that does not undermine the goal. (i.e. if the goal is to cut refined sugars, a piece of candy is not a good reward.) 
8. When setbacks happen, recommit. (Give yourself grace and keep going! One slip up does not equal failure.) 

By setting a small goal each week, it is much easier to attain your long term goal one step at a time. Even with setbacks, you can get back on track easily. It is better to set small goals that are achievable and have success than to be defeated by big goals that were unrealistic. Making changes in your health can be difficult, but it is possible, and I have seen amazing transformations with just one change per week as my clients have moved to healthier lifestyles that result in more energy, more clarity of thought, less health issues, less medication, and an overall feeling of well-being. 

What areas should I set goals in?  Find out here.

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Dave’s Famous Hearty Veggie Pizza

Dave’s Famous Hearty Veggie Pizza
I am visiting my brother and he made pizza!  He has been teasing the rest of the family with videos of his pizzas which he makes quite often, so I took videos and insisted on the recipe!  Enjoy!  It is delicious!





1 Cup Warm Water
1 Packet of Yeast (2 1/4 tsp)
2 T Olive Oil
1 tsp Salt
1 1/2 tsp Sugar
2 1/2+ C Flour
1/2 C of mixed spices and seeds (Flax/Chia/Hemp seeds, Flax seed powder, Basil, Chives, Parsley, Italian Seasoning, Garlic powder)

Mix water and yeast and let stand for 5 min
Add Salt, Sugar, and Oil
Stir in 1 C of Flour
Stir in Spices/Seeds
Stir in the remaining 1 1/2 C Flour
Once the dough is ready, set it in an oiled bowl, oil the top of the dough and let it rise for about an hour
Once the dough has finished rising, cut it in half, makes 2 12in pizzas

Toppings:
1 small onion
1 small zucchini
1 bell pepper
1 container of sliced mushrooms
15 black olives
15 green olives
1 can of black beans

1 chicken breast (if desired)
Mozzarella (if desired)
Pizza sauce

Individually saute each of the veggies (Onion, zucchini, mushrooms, bell pepper) and the chicken.
1/2 of the toppings go on each of the pizzas (mix toppings together, then pour on pizza)

Preheat oven and oiled pizza stone to 480 degrees.
Roll out dough on floured surface/board
Spread pizza sauce, toppings
Slide pizza onto pizza stone and bake 10 minutes

Try not to eat the whole thing by yourself, 😂!

I make mine plant based with no cheese or meat.  Nutritarian all the way!!
Check out Dr Furhman's website for tons of recipes!   👇

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